Hey There, I´m Nefe

For much of my life, I stood on the sidelines — like a wallflower on life’s dance floor — holding a cup of self-doubt and waiting for permission to step forward. I lived for approval, people-pleasing, and meeting expectations, even when it came at the cost of my own wellbeing.

On the outside, everything looked fine.
On the inside, I felt drained.

There was always a quiet spark — an espresso shot of creativity — whispering that I was capable of more. But burnout, body image struggles, and a career that looked impressive on paper slowly convinced me I wasn’t “enough.” I followed other people’s definitions of success the way you drink lukewarm instant coffee: out of habit, not joy.

Then came 2014 — my turning point.

Sitting at a desk that paid the bills but drained my spirit, I realised I’d spent years pouring into everyone else’s cup while leaving my own empty. I was tired of waiting for life to be handed to me. I wanted to choose my own blend.

A chance conversation with a coach cracked something open. I stepped into personal development, left what no longer served me, and began rebuilding my confidence — mindset first, then self-worth, then courage.

Today, I help ambitious women who feel stuck in cycles of self-doubt, people-pleasing, and burnout — women who know there’s more but aren’t sure how to reach it yet.

Through my confidence coaching and café-inspired tools, I help you stop running on autopilot and start creating a life that feels rich, balanced, and aligned.

Because you don’t need permission to step forward.
You already hold the cup — I’m just here to help you fill it with clarity, confidence, and courage, one sip at a time ☕✨

I’ve gathered some fascinating insights from my achievements.